spirit
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Let them throw their curses. If inside, I am connected to what's true, my soul stays quiet and clear
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Post by spirit on Oct 9, 2011 14:23:53 GMT
Happy Birthday to my Mum. She would have been 66 today. If only she'd given up smoking when she had the chance, she'd still be with us. My Granddaughter shares her birthday. I wish they could have met
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dottydolly
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I left the closet a while ago....
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Post by dottydolly on Nov 14, 2011 14:12:36 GMT
my grandma died we don't know if she is having a funeral as she may have dedicated her body to medical science!!
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tofu
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Post by tofu on Nov 14, 2011 22:27:41 GMT
sorry to hear about your granny dd xxx
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Post by leibniz on Nov 15, 2011 6:59:18 GMT
Sorry to read about your loss dotty dolly.
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betty
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Post by betty on Nov 16, 2011 21:36:51 GMT
my thought are with you dd! X
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Post by ureally1a on Jan 29, 2012 21:47:53 GMT
My grief has kicked in big style. Not very good times.
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Post by Earthlysparky on Jan 30, 2012 11:25:33 GMT
My grief has kicked in big style. Not very good times. big hugs to you. My grandad died a year ago today. I'm trying hard to put a brave face on it, but I'm struggling. He'd had Alzheimer's for 7 years, and there really wasn't very much of "him" left by the end. I miss him more than i ever imagined I would.
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Post by ureally1a on Jan 30, 2012 17:33:05 GMT
Big hug ES xxxx
For me the loss hurts more as the months go on than when it actually happened.
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Post by Earthlysparky on Jan 30, 2012 18:39:45 GMT
I know exactly what you mean. I've cried more in the last couple months than in the entire previous 10.
I've come to realise that I'm grieving for the lost 7 years as well as for his death.
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tofu
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Post by tofu on Mar 10, 2012 7:25:34 GMT
it's 19 years ago today since my mum died. sometimes it feels like another life and sometimes it feels so raw ! i still miss having a mum
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Post by sleepytigercub on Mar 12, 2012 15:34:30 GMT
I know what you mean, tofu. 17 years for me and I get that "other life/raw" dichotomy too.
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tofu
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Post by tofu on Mar 13, 2012 23:52:04 GMT
it's crap isn't it stc !
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Post by ureally1a on Mar 18, 2012 23:47:29 GMT
Today has been really hard. I got drunk Sat night just to sleep through Mothers day. My plan sorta worked. I miss her so much
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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2012 18:19:47 GMT
My uncle passed away early this morning back home in county fermanagh, he was 82 and I saw him last sept when i went back home for a couple of days. He was quite a character and will be missed. The funeral is on monday but i won't be there, i shall pay my respects next time i'm home. It's very sad and unfortunately happened on his eldest daughter's birthday...
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obeeky
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So here I am once more...
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Post by obeeky on Jun 1, 2012 10:22:02 GMT
just talked to the Bereavement Officer, just talked to the Funeral Directors. Because it's a long bank holiday weekend, if I wanted to see dad's body again I would have to wait until Wednesday.
The physical ache of loss is awful.
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